Talk Like a Pro (Even If You're an Introvert)

Let’s be real—starting conversations can feel like tightrope walking... on Zoom... with a weak Wi-Fi connection.

But it doesn’t have to be that way. Whether you’re introverted, rusty, or just not “a people person” (yet), there’s a better way to connect—without faking it or forcing it.

Here’s your 5-step cheat code to confident conversations:

1. Flip the Script in Your Head

Your inner voice matters. Replace:

• “I’m not good at talking to people.”

→ “I can learn to connect by practicing small steps.”

• “I don’t know what to say.”

→ “Asking questions is just as powerful as talking.”

💬 Go-to mantra: “I don’t need to be interesting—I just need to be interested.”

2. Use the C.O.R.E. Formula

Next time you meet someone new, try this:

Compliment: “Love your Zoom background!”

Observe: “You mentioned you’re in Texas—how’s the heat?”

Relate: “I used to live in a city just like that.”

Engage: “How’s your week been?”

The structure keeps you grounded and makes the conversation feel natural, not forced.

3. Keep Conversation Starters Handy

No need to reinvent the wheel. Use these to warm things up:

• “Any fun weekend plans?”

• “What do you usually enjoy outside of work?”

• “How long have you been doing [job]?”

✨ Pro Tip: Listen more than you talk. Stay curious.

4. Set Micro Goals

Confidence grows with practice. Try this:

• Week 1: Start 1 personal chat with a teammate.

• Week 2: Ask 1 non-work question to a client.

• Week 3: Share a short personal story during a huddle.

Track your wins. Celebrate progress. Rinse and repeat.

5. You’re Not Behind—You’re Just Early

Feeling awkward? That’s not failure—it’s just practice in progress.

Remind yourself:

• Connection is built on empathy, not extroversion.

• Progress comes from showing up, not being perfect.

Conversations don’t have to be scary. With the right mindset and a few tools, you can stop dreading small talk and start connecting with confidence.